Built by people who've lived it
FindSurrogate was founded by two people who experienced surrogacy firsthand: one as an intended parent and one as a surrogate. We built the surrogacy matching platform we wished we'd had.
Who are we?
FindSurrogate is an independent surrogacy matching platform that connects intended parents, surrogates, and agencies directly. It is not a surrogacy agency. We don't make matches or manage the process. We give members a place to connect, share information openly, and move at their own pace.
Founded by Chris and Elena in 2020, the platform was inspired by their firsthand experience with surrogacy: Chris as an intended parent and Elena as a surrogate. We built what we wished we'd had.
The platform has been developed in line with recommendations from the American Society for Reproductive Medicine (ASRM). Educational resources have been reviewed by Dr. Jose Garcia, a reproductive medicine specialist, and Kate Jones, a family law attorney.
Why we built it this way
More control and less uncertainty than traditional platforms, from your first search to your first conversation.
Skip the waiting list
Browse surrogate, intended parent, and agency profiles directly, and find a match faster.
Move at your own pace
Connect directly, work with an agency, or compare both routes before deciding.
Plan before you commit
Use tools like our cost estimator, compensation calculator, and checklist before starting conversations.
Know before you connect
See real profiles and get the information you need before starting any conversation.
What we stand for
Surrogacy is a big decision. FindSurrogate is built around privacy, transparency, and informed choice, so you can move forward with clarity, not pressure.
Safety
Member-only details, visibility controls, block/report tools and verified profiles help reduce uncertainty.
Transparency
Users should understand what is free, what requires an upgrade, and what happens before they register.
Inclusivity
The platform supports intended parents, surrogates, agencies, LGBTQ+ families, single parents, and international journeys.
Education
Guides, calculators, checklists, and safer conversation prompts help members make more informed decisions.
One platform, three journeys
Surrogates, intended parents, and agencies don't all need the same thing. FindSurrogate was built with that in mind.
Surrogates
You decide who you connect with. Explore intended parent profiles and reach out to the families that feel right to you.
Intended Parents
Find verified surrogates and agencies that match your location, values, and timeline. Connect privately, at your pace
Agencies
Connect with serious matches. List your agency and create profiles for your surrogates and intended parents in one place.
*Full profiles, photos, and contact details are available only to registered members.
Why we do it differently
A private surrogacy platform for exploring options, comparing profiles, and connecting when you're ready.
Direct matching
Explore intended parents, surrogates, and agencies directly, without being limited to one route.
Planning tools
Cost estimators, checklists, and guides help users understand the process before they contact someone.
Privacy-first experience
Keep profiles, details, and contact options private. Visible to members only, not in public listings.
Our team
Our team combines firsthand surrogacy experience with deep professional expertise.
Chris Parker
Co-Founder & CEO
Intended parent of a daughter born through surrogacy in Canada.
Elena Evans
Co-Founder & Surrogacy Advocate
Surrogate twice. Two families. Two different experiences.
Kate Jones
Family Law Attorney
Family law attorney with 15 years supporting intended parents and surrogates.
Now you know who's behind it.
Explore FindSurrogate and see how private surrogacy matching works.